Corporate America is full of executive changes. One CEO leaves and another is installed. If the CEO was good and is leaving for health reasons or retirement, we often wonder what it would be like to stand in the shadow as the new CEO. Perhaps people who want to be President think the same thing (at least most normal people who want to be President).
If you’ve ever watched the fashion design show Project Runway, their catch phrase is, “one day you’re in, and the next day you’re out!” We’re constantly being compared to someone or some standard. If it weren’t true we wouldn’t have so many beauty/fashion magazines on the newsstand.
We’re constantly judging people. Believe it or not, there are those I speak to in the spiritual direction arena who believe God is judging them. There of the mindset the Divine is watching every movement and thought. They believe is scorekeeping.
I obviously am not of this belief. For me, this idea is a fallacy. I’m much more inclined to believe in an ongoing conversation with the Divine (or however you designate a power greater than oneself). What I have found in my years going to therapy, receiving coaching, and engaging with a spiritual director is I’m most likely to be hardest on myself.
In reality, the big shoes I’m trying to fill are mine! (mind blown) If we have an ideal of what we can be or become and aren’t reaching this goal are we failures? Perhaps we just haven’t received the training or have the tools to ascend to this level of expertise or expanded consciousness.
My hope is you fill your own shoes to their capacity. Be the most and best you possible.
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